Lillian Eve… For the Liberation of your Spirit

Maybe its just good to be happy »

I know your saying… Wait! Wait! Wait! Isn’t that what we have all been reading this stupid blog for. Yes, we know its good to be happy. We’d like very much to be happy and we thought you were going to tell us how to do it.

Ooops! Even though I have probably taught this lesson to clients, and written it in very righteous newsletters, on some level at least, I just got it.

Being happy is actually good.

Being happy is good in and of itself.

I previously related to my happiness as a necessary thing to complete my life’s mission or to be good mom. Being happy would make me more efficient, better at stuff, more worthy of the side affect of enjoying myself.

I thought that growth, evolving, releasing fear, making an impact was what it was all about. Change of heart, being happy is what its all about. All of those things may make me more effective at being happy.

With this change of perspective, happiness changed. With all this attention she puffed up and expanded into her potential or something closer to her potential. Where happiness was once about being in a good mood now happiness is about enjoying a bad mood. If being happy or lets say experiencing joy or pleasure or freedom or Love is the name of the game, if I am going to be successful at life I had better get masterful at experiencing these thing no matter what.

In life lots and lots of terrible things happen all of the time and the very worst happen inside my own head. While there is a lot to do about this in the long run, lots of potential healing. I know I want a quick fix, not decades of therapy. Quick fix – be happy about not being happy.

Want to play this game with me?

May 7, 2013 @ 4:32 pm

Responsibility and the Ego »

One of my go to self coaching practices is taking responsibility for shit. What ever situation I am in, I look at it as if I created it. I am creating this moment and the next. When part of me wants to wallow and cry about how hard the big bad world is this is ...
April 2, 2013 @ 7:01 pm

Spiritual Surrender and Phantom Truths »

What has me resist God, resist what is freely offered and wholly good for my own agenda and control? I want to pray “dear God use me”, but I feel the anxiety catch in my gut as I grip on to my identity. Its as if I think my identity is separate from God. As ...
April 1, 2013 @ 8:25 pm

Sometimes I Feel Sorry for Myself »

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March 28, 2013 @ 8:10 pm

Being Bad and Liberated »

Child protective services was called on us for the second time. This has gotten me thinking about how our community can call forth our progress, our highest choices or it can resist it. It is easy to make choices that are out of alignment with our spirit because they are in alignment with our society. ...
March 20, 2013 @ 11:57 pm

How to Have a Rock’n Existential Crisis »

There is nothing like an existential crisis to wreck the carefully (or not so carefully) constructed infrastructure of your life. When you are questioning the very heart of your existence its hard to not to question everything you are doing and then stop being functional. As we get older we are less willing to go ...
February 16, 2013 @ 4:35 am

My New Years Resolutions »

I was writing you a long and beautiful blog post. It had excellent points about the most important thing and lessons and wise perspectives. Then I lost internet in mid save and accidentally closed the window while I was futzing about. To be honest I am really fucking frustrated… whew! Deep breath. It was going ...
January 3, 2013 @ 1:55 am

The End of the World »

I don’t care at all about these doomsday, apocalyptic, projections. Nor do I imagine that human consciousness is going to suddenly turn on like a light bulb. But I do feel something changing. It is changing in me and I see it changing in you.  Something has ended and something is lighting up. Peace For ...
December 20, 2012 @ 5:55 pm

Sex Bringing out the Crazy? »

I was seeing this man. Touching, kissing, licking, biting, loving and fucking this man. It was chemical reactions and rolling energy and soul expanding pleasure,  so sweet and hot and loving and it all felt so good and then out of nowhere came the crazy. I start saying things that were dramatic, and untrue. I ...
November 30, 2012 @ 8:41 pm

Shift Your Life »

Shift your life not by shifting your goals but by shifting how you think about them. I was watching my baby boy try to crawl. I put him on his belly and he looked around for something to want. Yep, he wants to want something. Then he either locks his eyes on some bright colored ...
October 31, 2012 @ 5:06 pm
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